The Annyeong Protest

Anything I could have updated with would have been pretty dull, so I haven't updated til now. I am joining this cause -> http://kblendofawesomeness.wordpress.com/2013/12/18/the-annyeong-protest/
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The annyeong protest in support of  Koreans who are being silenced their very rights ignored. Discrimination is still not illegal there.  Gay Bi Lesbian Transgenders people who are different from  the straight people are not accepted. Though it is not widely accepted in many places there is at least some semblance of tolerance for it. As long as it's kept to a minimum in public some people don't care. They are not being heard when they voice their discontent with the way their country is. They have been protesting  and only one media outlet has covered their protest and that was an independent website for news. We are hoping we can all work together to right a wrong and help this cause get global media interest and just show support to all those having a hard time to be heard lets help them share their voices

court and cooking

My court papers came yesterday, I broke down.
every time life starts going good that one err in judgement comes back to laugh in my face.
This will be the second time where I am trying to get pregnant or might already be when I go to court. The stress from that fact is killing me. I am positive the stress from last time is why I did not end up pregnant. My saving grace is I will have my best friend Angie with me so I can have a bit of stability. I really do just want this to be over so that it will leave me be once and for all.

I'm going to be learning how to cook with a slow cooker! My uncle wants to pay me to cook his meals. Since we couldn't find our cook books I went out yesterday and bought a new one it has 205 recipes for the slow cooker. I am looking forward to cooking some of the dishes in the book.

I will let you know how that turns out when I update after trying some recipes.

my life since then

it's been a while since I posted there has been a heap of things going on in my life since the last time I posted.
My brother and his common law wife have had another baby he's a beautiful boy named Damien he was born in July a day after his big sister Byanka's birthday. My big sister is currently pregnant with her second child and there is drama over that. My bff's little sister Jessie who is like a sister to me got married in July it was a wonderful wedding and she was gorgeous!

I ended up having to start taking medication to try and correct my pcos. I have not given up on being a mother but before that can happen my health has to improve my outer health looks fine but the inner health cannot be seen. I get a little annoyed when people talk to me as if they know my body better than me. If I say there's something wrong with my inner health trust me on the matter. If all goes well by the new year I should hopefully be with child as well , I wasn't too fond of the thought of being pregnant at the same time as my big sister though. Being my first pregnancy I do not want to share it with someone in my inner family circle, it's my time to shine I do not want to share the spot light selfish ya but that's just me.

Court with my ex still hasn't happened, Eric and I also didn't last actually that's not so surprising to me. I am not the type of person who could happily stay with an alcoholic partner. My sister in laws uncle Dean died recently and that added more family drama but I will not get into that it was an ugly event.

that's all for my update for now I leave you with this song I love no matter what language it's in xD

Original Korean



English



English Lyrics


Chinese

Update on my life

Court court court the reason why so many people get away with things is because they make us go through so much bullshit trying to get justice. In the summer of 2012 my ex sent my bestfriend Angie a death threat towards me. It took months to go to court only it wasn't really court I mean you go to the place of justice building and go through these metal detectors then you wait gods knows how long to talk to a social worker then the prosecutor if you are not sure of what you want to do go for a trial or just keep the retraining order they send you away for another month or two and then its a similar situation all over where it will take up to 4 to 6 months to actually go to trial or anything else. I just went for my second time on the 11th of March and I was pissed off they disregarded me I wasn't even in for 2 minutes and I was sent out being told the date would be mailed to me unless I wanted to go into the court and find out. They also made Angie come for nothing since they didn't even talk to her. The justice system is corrupt he threatened to kill me and my only options are drop the charges and have the restraining order for 1 year and he will not have a criminal record sorry anyone who threatens to kill someone should have a criminal record this is how people get away with their crimes in the first place because there is no record of their violent behavior.

Second option is I go to trial and if for whatever reason he's not found guilty then I do not even have the limited protection of the restraining order though it's only for a year.

and if he loses it's not recorded either apparently what the hell is with that ?! but I think that would actually stay even if it's a mistrial.

I am finally in higher spirits where the baby plans are , I will now try to find a job at least part time. Though I do need to check in with my friend Ashley because I made arrangements with her to help take care of her son but I do not know if she's actually going through with getting back to work or what.

https://www.change.org/petitions/governor-park-won-soon-create-a-bill-to-protect-korean-celebrities-from-fan-actvities?utm_campaign=friend_inviter_chat&utm_medium=facebook&utm_source=share_petition&utm_term=permissions_dialog_true

We have a petition going on at Change.org to rty and get the korean artist the protection they deserve similar to the new bill in the USA called the Steve Tyler bill. It's time they make it more of a hardship than a pleasure for the fans by punishing their rude and unmannered behavior.

I don't have much more than that to say really

Currently watching

update

life has been nothing but movement, busy busy busy. In november I found out I had hypothyroidism and started taking meds for that. The meds are now losing their effect so I will now have to go back to the doctors and get blood tests and get a new dose. I would like to find out if there is a healthy ultimatum to speed the thyroid so I do not need to use the medication.

My house is a bit of a wreck but I am getting things together I got a semi book shelf so I can unpack more of my books and set them up. I am trying to make this apartment feel and look more like a home.

My sisters accounts were hacked msn fb and gmail it's so stupid that the person who we all believe to be her ex the father of my nephew is taking over her accounts and pretending to be her one minute then a 12 yr old boy the next minute. He is also mouthing people off. even after she has warned people they still haven't deleted the account from their friends and still accept the account as a friend. He also opened another fb account in her name using her picture as a profile picture.

I will be making some money house cleaning next weekend I am looking forward t the change of pace.

so the kpop group I am part of in fb has once again died down sad to say I actually kind of expected it.