unfaithful

so much has happened recently my mind is spinning over everything.

I have had married men trying to sleep with me and hitting on me the passed week.

I hate men who are unloyal and unfaithful.

Almost all my ex boyfriends have cheated on me and betrayed me.

On facebook a girl added me and I have always suspected that there was a relation between her and my exs Girlfriend , I never confronted her about it and answered every question she asked me.
She had decided to meet me but that had never happened, I thought I was nuts to go meet my exs girlfriend.
I was able to do such things as talk to her and meet her and such because I have been completely over my ex for a long time now.

Today I got a call from the girl and she sounded like a broken women, she confessed to me that she had the feeling I was the best person to talk to and confessed her identity.
She apologized for hiding her identity from me and then she asked if she could meet me, I accept to meet her right away.
Karina's voice it clutched deep inside my heart and crushed down on it, I knew her pain I lived through it before.
We spoke on the phone about an hour and my heart was breaking for her, I lived through the same heart break by the same man in the same way as she now is.

We met up and spoke for about 4 in a half hours, the whole time she was shaking and fighting back tears.

We shared our stories of our times together with him the bad things he did to us, She told me his parents talk bad about me and so I deleted them from my facebook.

The man she told me about was a stranger a man I never met had been born, he became a monster abusive and controlling.
I am happy to have never met that man but wish she had never met him either, she doesn't deserve the pain he has put her through.
She thought I hated her and thought I would be upset with her, I am not a hateful person.
I want to be her friend and help her through her hard time, I wonder if that means something is wrong with me.
I know her pain so well I feel like I am reliving my most painful heart break times all over.
The thing that is most amazing is that he is engaged to her, wants to have children with her and yet cheats on her and she is dying. He is betraying a dying woman who is going for heart surgery next month.
Men like that do not know what love is, I pray he gets what he has given 10 fold the pain we have felt thanks to his actions.

I will end this blog here with a video every women who has been cheated on will feel and understand.