ex and current

I think there should be some kinda rule about ex's and currents being friends unless they were friends before hand.

I do not think it is wise for a current gf to befriend an ex gf as a matter of fact its fucking crazy.
It is one thing if the two are already friends and know each other well however, if you have never met do not go and befriend his ex you are asking for trouble.
What can a person hope to gain from befriending their bfs ex gf? nothing just a heartful of doubt and insecurity.
People change on rare occassions a scum of the earth guy can change his ways for someone it's a rare occurance but it can happen, the only thing his gf would gain from talking to an ex is a whole lots of doubt on his sincerity.

My exs gf decided to befriend me on facebook, we all had a feeling it was her.
My bestfriend Angie once asked me " why are you telling her everything and answering all her questions" that was an easy question to answer.
I am not one who lies I am not saying I have never lied but it is my belief that things are best said openly and honestly, besides as I told Angie if she wants to go digging her own grave let her she wants the truth I will give it to her let her deal with the facts.
The gf was curious as to why I told her everything so honestly and I told her " look I will tell you what I told my bestfriend Angie if you want to drive yourself crazy with doubt over the things that happened in my relationship with your bf go right ahead its not my problem you wanted the truth I gave it to you and you have to admit after I told you everything you started to doubt more and more" and she admitted to me that she had in fact started to doubt him more after I had told her about our past together.

She puzzles over my relationship with him in hopes of finding answers for her relationship with him. There are no answers to be found in a past relationship that was doomed to fail from the start, the only answer in it would be for her to become an ex as well.

I am an honest person I tell things as they are and as I see them , I believe every friendship should start openly and so I am an open book this is my way of trying to avoid misunderstandings by showing my true colours from start to end.

I have been single for along time now over 2 in a half year.
I have been in love with my bestfriend since around this time in 2008 I was already interested and half in love with my bestfriend while I was still seeing my ex even if he had not decided to date his current gf we would have gone our seperate ways because I would have dumped him for my bestfriend even if I could not yet hold him.

Regardless of my love for another better man, my exs gf doubts so much that she doubts my love and devotion to my bestfriend whom I want to move away from Canada to be with.
Asking me if I am with her boyfriend even though she knows her bf hates me and wants to throw me infront of a bus as he has not only told me but has said in front of her several times before.

I find it annoying to have to put up with that she says to me to try and undestand that she is going through alot, who better to know what you are going through then someone who has been there before you?
I can understand if I had just broken up with him a few months passed but 2 in a half years stop asking me and look for a different girl to accuse.

I do Not Want Need or Desire her bf I know what I am missing and it aint much, takes more then good sex to keep this girl satisfied. And seeing as how he is the only guy I had sex with that I truly wanted and meant to sleep with I cannot confirm he really is good in the sac, never mind the fact I found out he had a gf before me who dumped him because she claimed he was bad in bed.

I'll end this blog here for now leaving you with a song I relate to soo well if only it was about a guy and not a girl