Men should take responsibilty

Men need to take responsibility for their words and actions.
DONT TELL US THINGS IF WE AREN'T ALLOWED GETTING MAD AND UPSET OVER THEM!, don't tell us things you know will hurt us or annoy us and get under our skin then turn around and be like what's your problem with this.

You shouldn't tell a woman things that will make her upset towards another woman if you don't want her making a living moving targetted enemy out of that person.

when I speak of men taking responsibility for the things they say and/or do I do not mean oh you made me fall in love with you date me, thats just stupid.

However if a girl confesses to you and you do not rejected her flat out and you start acting like you are her boyfriend and you are saying all the things a boyfriend would and you tell her you love her and want to be with her. If you are not serious about her you need to either shut up and stop saying the things SHE WANTS to hear and say what she NEEDS to hear, if you have no intention of treating her like a gf everywhere and/or you don't plan on ever making her your real life gf shut the fuck up and stop speaking words you don't mean or plan to keep. Girls are impulsive in love they will throw everything away to be with you to get to where you are and they generally don't think twice, I know I wouldn't I want to be with someone very much right now and I am willing to throw everything away to make that happen.

I truely believe guys dont ALL mean to be assholes it just tends to happen sometimes.
The thing I have a hard time understanding is how they are able to treat " just friends" in ways they don't treat their" special female friend" , what I mean by that is often a guy will treat his best girlfriend better then his gf in some ways.

I explained one situation in my other post about that but I will share another.

Myspace.... it was popular back when and I will admit I gave in and made an account too since my friends bothering me to make one I got one, my ex got one from his bestfriend. Our friend Kerri literally made his account for him.
On my space he would always write to Kerri, Kerri and him would always post long msgs to each other and everything.
Bryan my ex had only photos of the two of them up and none of the two of us we were on each others friends list he was in my top space.
Everyone seemed to believe the two of them were dating instead of he and I, I was never even mentioned until Kerri mentioned me.
He never wrote on my wall or responded to my comments on pictures... it was the same thing on Facebook too he never paid attention to what I wrote to him. That was a very painful experience to go through.

I HATE men who make us jealous just because they find it funny when we are jealous half the time we either hate ourselves for feeling that way or hate you for making us feel that way. We are NOT proud to give in to insecurities or anger we love you and don't want or need you toying with our hearts.

On a bit of a different note and yet still dealing with men who break hearts here are two poems.
the first time I heard these poems I was around 8 years old and my cousin quoted them to me.

You started a fire that wont go away
you made me happy every day
you liften me up when I was down
you put my feet back on the ground
you brought joy back into my life
and now you stabbed me with a knife
goodbye is what they usually say
then I guess they walk away
well good bye my prescious one
I guess your work here is done.


A heart is not a playing thing
a heart is not a toy
but if you want it broken
give it to a boy
he'll tell you that he loves you
he'll tell you that it's true
but when he sees another girl
he'll say the hell with you.

there is a different version of this poem but this is what I remember her reading out loud to my sister and I.

This bunnies energy is on low since it is very late at the moment
so I shall curl up and sleep now see you in the morning
Truely yours Happy Bunny