Parenting

Everyone thinks They will be the best parent, people are always putting other parents down behind their backs.

There are people who give all they have to their children and go without for themselves, and yet people look at them and make foul remarks about them behind their backs.

What makes a good parent?
is it age and experience with children?
or maybe it's being strict and having rules?

I believe a good parent has balance, A parents age does not change that much, a person maybe more tolerant or less patient due to their age but I do NOT think age matters in when you have a child unless you truely are unable to raise the child well.

I have seen 16 year old mothers who were in my eyes amazing mothers who always put their child first, I have also seen elder mothers whom I wonder why did she have a child if she was going to act that way towards it.
I have seen young mothers who are children themselves trying to raise a child of their own and failing because they just were not ready to be grown ups, I have also seen elder women who are raising their children so lovingly.

There a many types of families and let me tell you just because we raise a child in a good way it does not mean our children will be good people, Yes we hope and pray our children will be good people who do good things but that's not always the case.

I believe the most important things in being a good parent are Heart,Devotion, Honesty and Determination.

As a parent you must NEVER GIVE UP! do not give up on your children support them without judgement the way you would have wanted to be treated.

Love your child openly do not be afraid tpo hold your child and praise your child , tell your child how happy you are to be their parent. Parents need to stop telling children what they are doing wrong and start showing them how to do right tell them how happy they make you not how angry they make you.

NEVER lie to your child if you don't want your child lying to you don't do it to them, children remember every lie they catch you in.

you need to to give your all when you are a parent you child has to come first, you need to make sure there is always a warm home to come home to a place full of love and acceptance.
Feed your children properly I know that can be hard sometimes but I am sure you can do it.
Take the time to teach your children do not get upset when they ask you questions, they really are trying to understand you and the world around them.