Hate is a strong word that rises from the anger and evil inside us, hate makes us bad when we are good.
No matter how I try, I really hate some people in this world.
Self acclaimed princess with her head up her ass crying for help but unwilling to help herself, stop pushing yourself on others. Stop taking what isn't yours .
Don't keep placing fault and blame on the shoulders of people who shouldn't be carrying the weight of the fault and blame, the fault is yours the blame it's all on you.
Miss thing with no self confidence stop trying to break down everyone else who just happens to be happy . You may have no self esteem but that doesn't give you the right to try and make others feel like shit.
Misery loves company and so the people who are suffering aim and target those that they hate the most " The HAPPY people".
Get off your high horses just go out and get high why go cause shit for others.
Life is too short to sit around waiting for love to happen if you want to be loved so badly go to the bar, sell yourself on the street who cares, you wont get love by forcing unwanted love and attention on a person who loves someone else or just doesn't see you that way.
Single ladies leave taken men the fuck alone can you really not find someone for yourself in today's day and age.
What with internet being all about hook ups it shouldn't be so hard why do you have to take someone else's man and tear another girls heart in two.
I doubt you ever think about how it's like to be in their shoes huh but when you are man you guys can't help but bitch and moan well let me tell you something home wreckers if the man can do it for you he can do it TO YOU!.
The thrill of the chase is something some girls live for so don't get pissed off when you are trying to make a man jealous and he decides to ditch your skank ass.
No one wants a woman who looks or acts like a whore to be his woman he only wants one to look at and take the good girl home.
As the song goes they want a lady on the streets and a freak between the sheets so if you are not a lady you will not get a real man not a good one anyways.
Men need to treat their ladies like they have worth and value and that they are not just ornaments for their arms and beds.
We want to be respected and treated as equals even if you are smarter then the her, she doesn't need to be reminded of the fact several times a day.
Instead of showing off your intelligence why don't you let her feel smart and compliment her on HER intelligence instead of throwing your intelligence in her face.
Relationships are not about rocket science people They are about COMMUNICATION, RESPECT, TRUST, LOYALTY, SACRIFICE, HONESTY, KINDNESS, PATIENCE, TENDERNESS, EMPATHY, FORGIVENESS, COMPASSION, COMPROMISE, ACCEPTANCE, TEAMWORK and LOVE of course.
There are other factors obviously like chemistry, compatibility attraction and lust also play their parts.
No matter what kind of relationship it is most of these things should be present be it close friendships or partnerships between man and woman or any gender.
If you do not have respect you have nothing to continue to build on because when there is no respect there is no compelling need to be around the person there is nothing worse then dealing with rude people.
Communication makes the world go round, there is nothing more frustrating then trying to talk to someone who refuses to talk to you in more then one word to 3 word replies many women know how annoying it is to talk to a man and get uhuh, uuuuuuh, ummm, yea, sure, no, maybe, i don't know , ok, I guess, we will see, what ever, i don't care, you choose. There are times we are positive our pets will would and do talk to us more then the men in our lives step up men.
HOWEVER, I also think women need to look at themselves carefully for I am sure many women agreed with what I had to say about men but listen up ladies we also need to think twice about how we talk to men.
SOMETIMES we REALLY DO need to STFU if you haven't seen your man in a while do not start complaining and whining about how bad things are instead how about telling them how good things are now that you are together.
Face it he finally gets to see you he don't want to listen to you bitch he wants to be close to you. I am not saying you cannot tell him your problems just maybe try venting to your best friends before hand and cut to the chase tell him the important things.
Men love trying to fix things they will tell you how to fix it and you will feel annoyed that he doesn't "care enough" about your feelings, he cares he told you his opinion on how to fix it men are simple like that they don't care about who said what they care about what to do now that its been said.
Men have feelings, have you ever took the time to think about how you disregard your mans feelings when you don't pay attention to him when you meet up but instead go on some bitch fest rant. Men are clueless sometimes but ladies try giving them more credit then you do without the men we cherish in our lives we don't feel like ourselves, so why should we continue to push them away by not giving them our faith that they are not so different from us. they have thoughts, dreams, desires and feelings, they love, bleed, cry and breath as do we.
Trust/Honesty where would we be without those two things if there is no trust in a relationship it is not likely you will go far. Honesty is the best policy being honest can be painful but personally I rather be told the truth hurt and get over it then be lied to and find out the truth at a later time where it will just hurt more when I do find out, and gentlemen we always find out.
There is such thing as being too honest people I am someone who suffers from being too honest and frank but I do have the decency to only dish out as much honesty as I know a person can handle most the time.
People need finesse when dealing with others.
Loyalty is an easy thing to understand or it should be you standby and support those you are close to and those you love .
You do not do things to make your friends family and lovers upset and hurt to feel as though they have no self worth/ self value.
Sometimes people make mistakes and should indeed be forgiven this does not mean walk all over people in hopes you will be forgiven or allow yourself to be walked all over but you do need to give some people chances.
The best thing a person can ever do is Accept another as they are, for who they were, are and will be. Everyone no matter what seeks some kinda of acceptance from someone if we want to receive we must first give life is about giving and taking and although some may not give it to us sometimes we must first give in order to receive because others have not learned what we have.
Love is many things rolled into one love is pain as much as it is joy and kindness for without pain how would we know what kindness and love is?
Friday, June 11, 2010
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absobloodylutely fantastic....brilliantly written....good choice of words...
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