Long Distance

Long distance relationships many times are painful when you are not in actual contact with that person you love. When you are both on instant messenger its like you are on cloud 9 you are filled with warmth and you smile feeling more relaxed then you did all day.
Sometimes you feel happy hours after they have signed off other times you feel lonely and miss them like crazy not even two minutes after parting ways ffor the day or night or until you get to talk again.
Getting to talk on the phone with the one you love who lives far away, is something some people just can not afford.
When you get to talk on the phone with the person you love the feeling is amazing it's like instantly growing wings and flying around the world twice.
Talking about nothing seems like the most interesting topic in the world you can not have a real conversation and yet you feel as though the words spoken are treasures deep in your heart.

Relationships are hard and are harder yet when you are not physically close to the one you love.
When I say physically close I do not mean in the sharing bodies sense, but it is no lie I do believe things do not work out so great when you are not able to touch the one you love to hold their hand or kiss their cheek.

It's very important that we see the people we love the reactions the expressions on their faces when they talk these are the things we take our cues from .
Body Language is as important if not more important then verbal language.
I have not only seen but also experienced fights over stupidity because it was not apprent just how serious the person I spoke to was being and they in turn could not see me.

Long Distance relationships really can work but you need a very important component that would be Trust.
If you cannot trust your partner things will never work.

I know what it's like to be insecure over a lovers actions and behaviours the words they speak sometimes cause you to stop and wonder.
When you wait days just to talk to a person hoping today is the day they will call/come online but they don't.
It's easy to feel lonely and depressed hating the distance and hating yourself for not being able to handle things better.
When you love someone so much you think of them all the time wondering and worrying about them and what they are doing it's easy to lose yourself.
Remember one thing you are not the only one in the relationship they feel the same way too they also want to see and touch and just be with you so don't lose faith but believe in the love in your heart.

I have someone I love very much who lives very far from me and sometimes I get lonely and doubt myself sometimes but I believe in the person I love and my love as well.
The times spent together will always be treasured and when I am down thinking of the one I love and the things we have shared make me happier, calm and thankful I was given the chance to meet and love them.