Tuesday, June 15, 2010

A man and his tears

There is nothing as heart breaking to me then a man who is crying.
Most men are raised with the belief tears are a sign of weakness, they are told to be a man and not cry from as early as 1 years old sometimes.
A man is just as vulnerable as any woman, sometimes I wonder if they are not a touch more vulnerable then us.
The thing with men is that they are so used to supressing their emotions, men can and often do give the impression of being what they truly are not COLD.
There are men you look at and you can never imagine them smiling or crying, and yet when they are on their own they cry so much they could drown in their sadness.
A mans tears are beautiful things they reflect the beauty inside the man , they show the man as he truly is human.
There are women out there who hate to see a man cry, crying is second nature theraphy to most women so why must a man not cry? A man shouldn't cry in front of a woman because she is weak to this type of man, a real man with no barriers.
We are so emotional that when we see another showing strong emotions it breaks us down more so when it's someone that we never see as anything other then "strong"
Real strength is when we can cry together or apart when we can be true to ourselves.
I find a man who shows his emotions and cries is a real man and the kind of man I would want by my side always.
Men deserve the right to express their inner pain with tears and words.
We have no right to tell a person to hide who they are, let men be true to themselves parents need to stop using the term stop crying be a man.

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