Men are from planet indifferent

Maybe men are from another planet,and maybe that planet is home to insensitivity and cluelessness.
Men can be so Clueless and insensitive , the worse thing is they are SO much of both they never even realize how insensitive they are being.
If you know someone is in love with you then you should treat them accordingly,if you have returned her feelings treat her as someone you love.
If you have denied her feelings treat her as a friend and hold your ground, if you reject someone you cannot try to not hurt them.
Please lets face reality men she's already hurt and no amount of kindness will fix it, as a matter of fact men who reject women and then treat them golden end up hurting the girl more most of the time.
Men are big wussbags I get it you don't wanna make her cry hey asshole she already is!
Every time we go unnoticed to the one we love and care for we cry that my friend is a fact.
There will be prideful girls who deny this however, look back on the past guys you liked and how they treated you unkindly or unfairly.
I will bet almost anything about 95% of the times you cried or wanted to cry when you felt or thought your words and emotions weren't getting across.
When he seemed indifferent to all you said or did you felt like crying and it felt like your heart was slowly accumulating tiny cuts all over it.

There are guys who are very thoughtless where girls are involved, if a girl has low self esteem and you know it watch what you say to her.
A girl doesn't need to hear you say you like her then watch you parade around photos of models, are you trying to give her a complex?
Being a woman there is one thing I can say with certainty we not only want we NEED to be the number one girl in your eyes.

You cannot tell us we are everything to you and then turn around web searching hot chicks because that to us says we are NOT EVERYTHING but we ARE lacking something and so you must find it else where.
Many men roll their eyes and get annoyed at girls who get jealous and insecure, sorry to say it but we are this way because you instilled that urge to be the way we are.
If we are insecure it is normally a mans fault, I am not trying to man bash right now regardless how it may seem.

I was always a very confident girl even if I wasn't the most popular I had confidence and a very carefree nature. I only began to feel unconfident when a boyfriend would tell me about so and so this girl or that one hitting on him or some other random thing like that.
Men I know it strokes your ego when a girl pays attention to you, however ever you should remember you have someone by your side who is willing to do everything and anything for you.
The most painful thing and thing that causes the most insecurity is our loved one paying attention to another instead of us.
A woman is proud of her man because he is her boyfriend, girls can look but we don't want to hear you telling us about the girls who were, we don't need to know you noticed and enjoyed attention from another woman.

If you know a girl has a complex on her body do not bring attention to it, that shirts gotten tight is not something we want to hear.
Women do not think its great that they have gained weight even if it means their breast are bigger and you enjoy the view.
Another thing we don't like we don't like you making comments about OUR Friends not just best friends but any of our friends bodies, for that matter don't comment on YOUR friends bodies either.

We are not stupid we know you will look at others but when you are obvious about it that's painful, we are here look at us.

Do not do things for other girls that you wont or don't do for your girlfriend.
I remember working downtown and my boyfriend never came to see me at work , he did however go visit our friend who happened to be his best friends girlfriend and his best girlfriend.
Our friend worked about 5 minutes to 10 minutes away from my work. The day I found out he would go visit her and take her out for coffee and donuts or chocolate milkshakes I cried, I became jealous of my friend because my boyfriend treated her special. I was hurt because he never did sweet thoughtful things like that for me, I felt like I had to compete for my boyfriends affection and attention when I should have gotten it without asking or trying to earn it.

Insensitive

Show me how to be insensitive
Insensitive like you
Teach me how to say
The painful things you do
Teach me how to shield my heart
So I can feel no guilt
When I see the broken person
I built
Show me how easy it is
To fuck yourself over
To feel as if I'm all alone
Teach me how to be like you
Tell me what I have to do
So I can be insensitive too

I wrote this poem for my ex who has to have been one of the most indifferent insensitive men I had any kind of relationship with be it friendship or romance.

the moral of the story?
men already know how sensitive woman are even when we try to be cold hard hearted bitches who act indifferent the key word there is ACT we can act as good as any actress to hide the pain you cause us.

A woman can be in agony and still smile in the face of a man just because he is a man.

how about putting that brain in your head to good use and think twice about just how you might hurt us every time you open your mouth stupidly speaking without thinking you may not mean harm but you put our hearts through a shredder then pick up the pieces and throw it in a blender.

I am not saying girls have no faults I am just pointing out the faults of too many men.