Patience

Do I have someone in mind for this blog? is it directed at one certain person ?
The answer is no not at one specific person though some may feel guilty reading this post it is not about them, this is about me though others may play reference the ones who will read this are not the ones so you may rest assured.

Having patience is a good thing right?
Sometimes a good thing can really feel like a bad thing, too much of a good thing can be bad.

I always had to be patient and so I don't generally mind waiting for people and things it's the story of my life anyways.

The problem with being someone who is patient is that others start walking all over you since hey so and so has great patience they wont mind being last in line all the time.
Because you are patient you are disregarded your value goes down because it's ok to be treated un fairly as long as you are willing to wait on them they believe they are not doing anything wrong.
I will never complain about how friends treat me when it comes to waiting to do things like hang out together or just to talk to one another people lead busy lives and need someone to understand that and I do.
My problem is not in waiting for people to decide they finally have time for me, the problem I have is they give me no warning I will be waiting for a while a long while often enough.
I am a patient person but I also have times where I have no patiences because I feel people sometimes take my patience for granted There are times I would like answers now and not wait for them for twenty minutes or not get a response at all. I never complain out loud about these things that oddly is not how I am.

I hate being thanks for being myself like its an unheard of thing that I will be patient.
I remember one person always thanked me for being patient, she abused that patience everytime we met and thanked me everytime too. There came a day I stopped waiting on her and left instead unable to always be the last person on the list just because I was a patient person.

I think people should be thoughtful of others if you are talking on the phone and you get anothe line you dont have to answer that other line if its important the person will call back.
If you are talking on the phone and get another call and you answer tell the person you are on the other line and will call back or ask them to call back, you can even switch lines and tell the other person to call you back or that you ill call them back. It is rude to leave a friend on hold for 20 mins just tell them you will call them back instead of doing that.

If you are on instant messenger and you are talking to several people at once and you get into a serious conversation change your status to busy , most ppl will take the hint you got caught up in something and they will occupy themselves doing something else until you are available.
Tell a person when you have several things to do and that you might not answer for a bit this way they wont wait. I am lucky because most times I will change what I am doing ,though I still write as well often enough knowing they will read it when they can.

all in all I think people need to be more aware of how they treat others.
this bunny is ready to crash hang me by my ears and wake me in the morning
Tomorrow I will have a new post up hopefully siething with more spunk then this for now eat your carrots and curl up in a ball baby coz its time to be healthy and sleep well.