Being Friends

Since I am in love with my bestfriend this movie fits lol





What does it mean to be a friend?

To be a friend do you have good times with the person effortlessly or do you work to have a good time everytime you are together?

Are friends people you talk with in times of trouble who will give you advice when you don't know what to do?

what are the basis for friendship? when is someone considered a friend and not just someone you have met and spoken to on occasion.

I know many people in this world, but just how many friends do I have in this world?

Personally I do not consider someone who knows nothing at all about me a friend, that to me would be an aquaintance.

There are people in this world that we know whom we would considered friends except the only time we see each other and talk is when they are having bad times.
I personally hate people like that people who have no cares in the world about what I am going through, but the minute they have a problem they come crying to me.

I believe true friends do not need to work at having a good time together I think it happens naturally, just walking to the park can be a really fun time if you are with the right person.

In person I have 2 bestfriends Angelika and Christina , I have been bestfriends with Angelika since 2002/2003 .

I admired Angelika before I met her because her boyfriend a guy whom I consider my cousin told me all about her before we met, he told me about how she left her family in Ontario to move here to Montreal Quebec with him.

Angelika is a free spirit much like myself she is very out going and carefree, She isn't afraid to make a fool out of herself and has a fun time being herself.

Christina and I have been bestfriends for what feels like forever but in reality has on ly been half my life haha.

I met Christina in school when I was 12 , she didn't want anything to do with me but I just had to be her friend something inside told me I couldn't stop until we were friends.
In my 12 year old mind being friends with her was destiny I had to be her friend no matter what! I got my other childhood friend Cara to introduce us.

At first we became aquaintances of a sort though to her I think I was more of an annoyance haha. I would come over to her house and her mom would let me in and her little sister and I would play games together. The main thing that connected Christina and I was our love for our pets, her dog had puppies and I wanted one badly but I already had a dog and my parents wouldn't let me have another.

The main reason Christina and I got close was because she got jealous of her little sister Jessie, I came to see her but was playing games with her sister watching Sailor Moon with her and not paying attention to Christina since she was just ignoring me anyways.

After we got past Christina being afraid of moving away she and I were practically joined at the hip, I was always with her hanging out at her place sleeping oer spending the holidays there.

In the first year of friendship with Christina I was accepted into her family as another member of it and to this day call her mother mom , her little sister Jessie is my little sister, her children are my niece and nephew whom call me aunty, from the age of 12 until I was 18 I only ever missed one thanks giving with her family.

Christina is easy going , down to earth, carefree she is a free spirit and true to herself.

my two best friends are alot like me and at the same time very very different.

Christina is very generous and kind she does everything she can for her friends and even strangers sometimes.

Angie is a bundle of energy and great with children as she gets to play and have fun all the time she seems to be a very happy person.

Unless you are a stranger then she may look like she hates your very existance she needs time adjusting to people and honestly its worth the wait because once she is your friend and comfortable around you the party never stops.

I have bestfriends on line as well and we get along great we understand each other and everything always feels natural with them.
I do not have to struggle to figure out what we should talk about we find something to talk about or do even if it's totally random.

With one of my bestfriens we share music and videos she got me more interested into korean singers and actors and shares her findings with me.

Another friend and I often have deep and meaningful conversations about things that touch our hearts and lives. This girl has shared a great deal of knowledge with me as I hope I have done with her.

then I have my other best friends whom we always go towards music and singing and talking about love lives and life.

We all taunt and tease each other as we are a circle of friends connected by Yahoo chat.

I have another bestfriend who is my Biggest fan with her we talk about manga anime and fan fictions relating mostly to yu yu hakusho. We talk about some deep things and we play and joke around.

I always have a good time with these important people and I am glad they are my friends.